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Relationships

Masculine and feminine penetration

The masculine penetrates through the genitals. That’s where the feminine receives.⁣ ⁣ The feminine penetrates through the heart. That’s where the masculine receives.⁣ ⁣ Forcing a man to open up emotionally before he’s ready can feel similar to a woman being entered before she’s dripping wet and fully ready.⁣ ⁣ And the lasting effects are the same. I see so many women who are completely
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Posted July 23, 2019
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Blood

You can be all things at once

You can be all things at once. ⁣ ⁣ The same way the streets are filled with cigarette butts and pee stains and flowers and trees so wide they make you stop in your tracks in awe of life -⁣ ⁣ You can be in pleasure from anger. In pleasure from grief. In pleasure from disgust. ⁣ ⁣ These aren’t bad emotions. They are a
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Posted July 21, 2019
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Self Love

It is safe

It is safe to make sounds. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to be loved. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to express your rage. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to feel safe. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to feel pleasure. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to feel joy. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to receive. ⁣ ⁣ It is safe to squeal. ⁣ ⁣ It is
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Posted July 13, 2019
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Men

Why I love men

The moments when I am most impressed by masculinity are when I see men being willing to step into all sides of themselves. ⁣ ⁣ When I watch their tears. ⁣ ⁣ When I hear what they are afraid of. ⁣ ⁣ It makes an entire part of my body come online and say: this is brave. This is a man I can trust. This
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Posted July 11, 2019
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Self Love

The story of my body

Here is the scar from when I had a cyst removed, and was too indignant to stay out of the sun for the summer⁣ ⁣ Here are the lead spots: two of them, one in my hand and one on my knee, from being stabbed with a pencil in grade school⁣ ⁣ Here are the pores the magazines said were too big. If only I
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Posted July 5, 2019
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Trusting Life

I never had good relationships with women

I never had good relationships with women. I changed my best friend every year. My friendships were based around how we related to boys, and getting boys to like us, and not liking all the other girls.⁣ ⁣ As an adult, I got to avoid deeper friendships with women because I changed locations so many times. I changed schools and I traveled around the world
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Posted June 29, 2019
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Blood

You have never been too much

You have never been too much. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ You were never too sad, too emotional, too grief-stricken. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ You were never too excited or too childlike or too loud. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ You were never too dramatic or moody or quiet. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ You were never too talkative. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ You were never too fat, or too thin. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ You were never too outspoken,
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Posted June 21, 2019
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Boundaries

“I don’t want to” is the only reason you need for saying no to anything, ever

“I don’t want to” is the only reason you ever need for saying no to anything, ever. ⁣ ⁣ Same with: “I’m not interested. I don’t like it. I changed my mind. No. Never. I don’t like you. Please stop talking to me.”⁣ ⁣ If we were raised female it can be especially hard to say these things. Because it is ingrained in us to
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Posted June 17, 2019
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Self Love

Normalizing pubic hair

Just wanting to normalize a little body hair 💁🏼‍♀️⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I received about 10 women’s magazines/month as a teenager. All of them talked about shaving or waxing or using creams – getting rid of hair on the bikini line especially was seen as tidy, and necessary. ⁣ ⁣⁣ As a teenager, I could not figure out for the life of me what to do with
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Posted June 9, 2019
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Men

We had just finished doing a practice when I heard him sobbing

We had just finished doing a practice when I heard him sobbing.⁣ ⁣ “Can you turn the camera so I can see you?” I asked, gently. ⁣ ⁣ “Do I have to?” He asked, reluctantly. ⁣ ⁣ “No,” I said, “If it feels safer to not, you can keep it there. But I think it might be important to let another person witness you.”⁣ ⁣
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Posted June 8, 2019
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