Imagine having sex with your partner and feeling totally in control of every moment.

Not only are your physical skills amazing, but your mind-game is on point - you’re fully connected to her, noticing every reaction, every breath, and responding perfectly.

You’re fully present, and she can feel it.

You decide when you want to orgasm.

You can have multiple orgasms without ejaculating, if you feel like it.

You no longer worry about how you’re performing sexually, or how you’re fulfilling her as a partner.

You know your life means something, and you know how to use your sexual energy to enhance your life’s purpose.

Sound like a dream? It’s not.


The last round of VENTURE closed for registration November 17th, 2018. The next round will open February 2019.

You may contact me to see if I have any available coaching spots before then.


In VENTURE, you’ll:

  • Figure out what you want out of your relationships and sex life

  • Identify thought patterns and beliefs that are holding you back

  • Learn how to have full-body orgasms, multiple orgasms, and how to separate orgasm from ejaculation

  • Connect more deeply with your own body

  • Learn how to embody your primal nature in a safe and powerful way

How does it work?

You can book a free discovery call with me, and we’ll discuss what’s going on in your sex life. I’ll let you know how I can help you and we’ll decide if you are a good fit for the program.

You’ll work one-on-one with me, over video calls, for 6 weeks. We’ll do different things on the calls based on what is happening for you, and I’ll give you personalized practices to do on your own. You’ll have email access to me throughout the program.

My work is different than most other coaching work because it is very body-based. I use practices on the calls that help connect you to your own body to learn from it. When we work only with our cortical (“thinking”) brain, we’re missing out on the wisdom of the limbic system and the primal brain, both which store emotions and patterns we hold in our bodies. Especially when working with sexuality, getting to know our bodies is necessary. Often our bodies believe things that our cortical brain doesn’t consider logical or true, and that holds us back from getting what we desire.

I help you integrate all parts of yourself, and I combine that work with breathing techniques and meditative sexuality practices that transform your sex life.

The calls are a professional space. Though we discuss sex and sexuality in depth, there is no clothing removal or guided sexual touch on the calls, and I hold strong boundaries between coach and client.


I have a super busy schedule. Do I have time for this?

The commitment is an hour once a week, or once every two weeks (depending on how you want to schedule it) for our sessions, plus the practices I give you, which average 20 mins 5x/week. So, that’s less than three hours a week. I’ve found that the clients who commit to the at-home practices have way bigger shifts than those who don’t. It is a commitment - you wouldn’t go to the gym once a week and expect to get stronger - but it’s not a giant one.

I’ve never talked to anyone about any of this, and I’m afraid.

It’s super normal to feel a little hesitant about getting coaching. It’s a big life shift - it’s a commitment to your sex life! - and that tends to make us nervous. I’ve heard it all, so I won’t judge anything you say. And that’s why I do the first call together for free - so you can decide if coaching feels like something that you can commit to.

What do we do during the sessions?

We talk; I ask you questions; we do embodiment practices, breathwork, and meditations; I give you tools to use on your own; I ask more questions. There is no clothing removal or guided sexual touch - it’s sex coaching, but it’s a professional space. It’s similar to a therapy session, but with more practical tools and energetic concepts.

What happens during the discovery call?

I ask you questions about your sex life and your sexual history, you can ask any questions you have about my coaching, we’ll discuss package options and pricing, and you can decide if it sounds good to you.

Do you work with people who are not heterosexual men?

Yes! While my business is mainly focused on heterosexual, cisgendered men, I often secretly launch programs for women through my personal Instagram. You can also email me to see if I have spots available. If you are someone who is LGBTQ, or a person of color who might want to work with someone who isn’t white, please click here.

What time zone are you in?

I’m typically on Pacific time. I’m usually able to find times in my schedule that work for any time zone - I’ve worked with clients all over the world - so we can work together on that.

Do you have a refund policy?

I do the free discovery call to make sure we’re a good fit for one another. If I don’t think I can help you, I’ll tell you so. But once we start working together, there are no refunds unless there’s an extenuating circumstance, at which point we can discuss it.

Do you do in-person sessions?

Not right now, but that’s coming soon :)

Become the master of your sex life.

“My sessions with Demetra were extremely insightful and helpful for me to understand my condition and improve my sexual life and relationships. I felt extremely comfortable opening up to her and she guided me with simple and very effective practices that are helping me a lot.”

“You have a gift for this work, Demetra. Your reflective skills are excellent, and you exhibited an openness and ability to flow with whatever arose during the session. While the sessions had some structure to them, I did not get the feeling that you had a specific agenda or goals that you were trying to achieve (or get me to) during the session.”

“Demetra holds a space of pure inquiry and love, which is what I needed most given that it was my doubting mind that has been shutting me down sexually. With her gentle guidance, and offering of tools as both homeplay and during our session, I was able to peel apart a truth that lives in my body that my mind hasn’t integrated over my long history of waking up my body from trauma. I feel empowered now to navigate forwards believing my body is capable of what I most desire.”

“There was an instant comfort level. Something I had never said out loud seemed to just float off my lips. Demetra welcomed all my feelings and thoughts, never dismissing any.

“I liked that I could be completely honest and you were always happy with that. Even if I didn't have an answer, you were just happy that I was trying to connect. I never felt like I had to push something if it wasn't there.”

“Demetra Is a trusting and gifted coach. She was able to take me through deeply transformative shifts in our first session! I’m grateful for the tools she was able to provide in our session. I highly recommend her.”