Sex coach Demetra Nyx talks about what women want from men, how you can bring your sex life to its fullest potential, and how masculinity is shifting in modern times.



Podcasts are released weekly-ish and not on a super regular schedule! See the list of past episodes below:

Ep04: Mastering Male Sexuality with Jordan Gray

February 4, 2019


Summary: Everything you want to know about male sexuality

Details: Jordan Gray has been a Sex and Relationship coach for the past decade. He writes articles on his blog,, about a wide range of topics. He also writes about mental health, physical health, and relationships. He is the author of more than 6 different books, at least 5 of them having reached #1 best-selling in their category on Amazon. His writing has reached over 40 million people from around the world, and he regularly reaches over a million people on his blog, monthly.

In this episode, we discuss Jordan's entire journey through his sexuality and masculinity - including topics like masturbation, BDSM, anal sex for men, masculinity, male friendships, and more. This is a super fun episode and I'm so excited to share it with you!


Jordan’s website:

References we make in this episode:

Esther Perel’s The Masculinity Paradox

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia

Come As You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski

Ep03: Boundaries, Consent, & #metoo with Natalie Baack

January 28, 2019


Summary: Helpful info for men to learn how to navigate #metoo and become a part of the solution

Details: In this episode, I talk to coach Natalie Baack about boundaries, consent, and #metoo. We discuss how men may contribute to the problem without realizing it, and we provide helpful solutions. This is a great episode for any guy wanting to learn a little more about how to navigate relationships with women when dealing with trauma, boundaries, and consent..

CW: sexual assault - not super intense or detailed, but we do discuss it happening to us


Resources we discuss in this episode:

- Sex Education on Netflix

- Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent

- Nonviolent communication (

- The 4 Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz

- Local men’s groups

To follow Natalie, go to her website

Ep02: What Does Working on Your Sexuality Mean? with Brooke Hayes

January 21, 2019

Summary: Demetra and Brooke talk about what is possible for men working on their sexuality, the human brain, gourmet sex, and more.

Details: In this episode, I talk to my friend (and fellow men's sex coach) Brooke Hayes to give you an overview of this field. We discuss men being connected to their bodies, what is possible for men sexually (multiple orgasms & more!), and we define some terms I'll use a lot in future episodes. This is a great episode for someone who has no prior experience with this type of work.

Notes: To receive your free audio and practice about being the best lover possible in the bedroom, go to

To contact Brooke, email

The podcast episode I mention when discussing studies done on the human brain was The Ezra Klein Show, Episode 174 (“Will Storr on Why You Are Not Yourself"). I got a detail incorrect when I spoke - the treatment for epilepsy at the time was to cut the brain, the brains weren’t cut for the study.

Ep01: Podcast Trailer

November 15, 2018