Demetra Nyx
Demetra Nyx
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Hey, I’m Demetra.

I’m a sex coach and storyteller. People come to me to learn how to have mind-blowing orgasms, become incredible in bed, and have fulfilling relationships…

… and they leave feeling confident and free to express the truth of who they really are (plus, all of the above!).

 

My life-changing email series:

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Available on iTunes and Spotify.

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"I’m just too nice, that’s why girls don’t like me." "Nice guys don’t succeed in business, and I just care too much." "Women only like assholes, that’s why I can’t find a partner." Hidden in these statements is a story about the world. They describe a narrative where the world is mean and treats you badly. You aren’t succeeding and you’re nice, so you must be too nice to succeed. When things aren’t going well, we need to find an excuse. Our brains are very efficient. Because our brains can’t cope with looking at what’s really wrong, they provide the quickest and most easily-accepted explanation. The biggest questions we have to ask ourselves about our stories are these: (link to full piece in bioooooo)
ALL ABOUT ANAL (lol it's still so fun that I get to do this as a job) This episode will be perfect for you if you haven't ever tried anal play, or have tried it a few times thinking you don't like it. I brought both the amazing @elleciapaine and @love.sara.deanne on with me - making it a super fun and giggly episode where we talk about tips, toys, and more. We also talk a lot about the shame heterosexual men especially tend to experience around anal play, and how to begin if you're curious. Orrrr if you ever just wanted to listen to 3 women talk about anal sex, this one’s for you. The podcast name has changed to Sex, Love, & Power with Demetra Nyx (I took out the words "the modern man") - you can find it on iTunes or Spotify!
When’s the last time you let your body move like this? When you were 5? Ever??? Free unconstrained expression of your body and of the sensations in your body is GOOD FOR IT. This is how your body processes emotions. It likes to move around. It doesn’t have to look pretty and you don’t have to be “good at it.” You just have to put on some music and cry and laugh and scream and let your body do its thing. Even if its “thing” looks like a weird blend of pole and yoga and exorcism and sex and dance. Actually, even better if it does 😂
I used to hate men, now I love them. Here's what changed. 3 years ago, I really hated men. Like, all men. I was attracted to romantic partners, but I felt sort of like I was in competition with them — trying to get them to like me, trying to be the one who cared less. My best friend was reading this book called “The Queen’s Code.” And she was going on and on about how much it was changing her life, how she adored men now. I told her I couldn’t even count on one hand the amount of men in the world I actually admired or respected. (link to rest of the piece in bio)
I was on a creative high from Friday straight through Tuesday night. I had endless energy, even though my period came on Monday. Everything felt endlessly magical and perfect and like nothing could go wrong again - I had totally figured it out. Then I released everything I had been creating, and my energy levels totally crashed. All day yesterday I spent in bed reading, in a crazy dream-like emotional state. Last night I said to Tanner, “It’s so weird isn’t it? My energy has crashed but my mood hasn’t.” Because he knows me well, he was like, ........ let’s just wait and see.. lol. And then, this morning, I woke up in a terrible mood. I was exhausted and everything felt wrong. I cried A LOT. It turns out that birthing a giant creative child within 5 days causes alllll of your shit to come up to the surface. So what did I do? Initially, I made myself wrong. “I shouldn’t be feeling this way, I was so happy two days ago, why can’t I have that energy level all the time, I’ve failed bc I’m not happy”........ Then I had a coaching session this afternoon and got to laugh (through all the tears) that I had been doing the opposite of what I just spent the entire week creating. And then I realized people are already filling out my new email series. Doing them, emailing me questions, sending back the workbooks. And I am getting to read the first day’s stories: what are their stories around sexuality?? And I am being burst open by the answers. So I’ll just lie here - totally welcoming this energy crash, now, not making it wrong, just feeling like I’ve earned it. If you want my free series TRANSPOSE (62 pages of workbooks!!) and a free coaching session ($250 value atm) the link is in my bio to sign up. And I’ll be BLEEDING ON THIS PERIOD BLANKET - literally hands down the most magical period thing I’ve ever experienced!!!! I found it on Amazon and it has a waterproof bottom but isn’t crinkly and it is soooooo velvety soft and you can bleed into it all night and not ruin your sheets. It had like no reviews and I chanced it and it is epic. I recommend buying an extra red sheet on top for protection for the top sheets as well. Highly highly recommend 💕💕💕
THIS IS WHAT’S HAPPENING WITH MY BUSINESS!!!! (you can go to the link in my bio if you wanna watch the whole Facebook live 💕 or just check out my website instead of watching!!!) 💕 Summary: I am expanding - opening to coaching everyone instead of only men. ✨You can get my new incredible email series called TRANSPOSE where you learn your stories and rewrite them if you sign up for emails (link in bio). ✨If you complete this series & send back to me, you can get a free coaching session (limited time offer)